RASULULLAH SAW bersabda yang maksudnya: "Demi Allah, kalau kamu tidak berdosa, Allah akan menjadikan satu umat lain yang melakukan dosa, lantas mereka beristighfar kepada Allah lalu diampuni dosa mereka." (Hadis riwayat Muslim)

Menjadi lumrah, manusia tidak boleh lepas daripada kesalahan dan dosa. Hal ini disebabkan adanya sifat lupa, lalai, mengikut hawa nafsu, godaan syaitan dan sebagainya.

Sesungguhnya dosa sebenarnya bukanlah perkara yang pelik dan mengaibkan. Tetapi, yang aibnya apabila seseorang itu kekal dalam dosa tanpa rasa ingin kembali bertaubat serta memohon ampun daripada Allah.

Oleh itu, beristighfar amat dituntut dalam Islam kerana ia boleh menghapuskan dosa perbuatan yang dilakukan.

Sumber: Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia

aku betul betul terpanggil nak post entry kali ni, coz i really piss of pasal kes sumbang mahram. i feel lucky sebab my parents give me enuf didikan agama walaupun aku tak la sebaik maner, tapi biler sampai sumbang mahram is totally not acceptable. how can u do it to your own sister???.. oh my god. benda ni memang aku tak leh terima. tak kesah la kalau org cakap aku pun jahat, tapi when it comes to family i really protect them. aku bab family ni tak leh main. aku betul betul bengang biler benda camni berlaku. its family ok?? its ur own sibling.

ARGHHHHHHH

Oleh Rudy Fazrunisyam Samarudin

MUAR: Seorang remaja yang gemar menonton filem lucah dihukum penjara 30 tahun dan 16 sebatan oleh Mahkamah Sesyen di sini, semalam selepas mengaku bersalah terhadap dua tuduhan merogol adik kandungnya yang berusia 17 tahun pada Mei 2005 dan Februari lalu.

Remaja berusia 19 tahun itu yang mengaku menonton filem lucah bersama rakannya ketika ibunya tiada di rumah, dihukum penjara 15 tahun dan lapan sebatan bagi setiap tuduhan rogol itu.

Hakim Mahkamah Sesyen, Mohd Fauzi Mohd Nasir memerintahkan tertuduh menjalani hukuman penjara secara berasingan bermula daripada tarikh hukuman dijatuhkan semalam.

Ketika Mohd Fauzi bertanya kenapa tertuduh merogol adiknya sendiri, remaja itu menjawab perbuatan itu dilakukan kerana tertekan selepas kematian bapanya pada Mei tahun lalu.

Mohd Fauzi: "Kamu merogol adik sendiri kerana tertekan atas kematian bapa kamu, tidakkah kamu tahu perbuatan kamu itu menimbulkan masalah yang lebih besar?".

Tertuduh: (Tunduk dan diam saja)

Ibunya, berusia lingkungan 50-an yang duduk di belakang kandang tertuduh kelihatan menangis selepas Mohd Fauzi menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas remaja berusia 19 tahun itu.

Remaja yang tidak mempunyai pekerjaan tetap sebelum itu merayu bagi meringankan hukuman dengan alasan mempunyai seorang ibu yang sudah tua dan sudah mengaku salah terhadap perbuatannya.

Bagaimanapun, Pegawai Pendakwa, Asisten Superintendan Lim Ah Bah memohon kepada mahkamah supaya menjatuhkan hukuman berat terhadap tertuduh kerana ia membabitkan kesalahan serius iaitu sumbang mahram.

"Perbuatan tertuduh memberikan kesan trauma yang teruk terhadap adiknya, sehubungan itu hukuman yang setimpal wajar dikenakan terhadap tertuduh," katanya.

Sementara itu, laporan akhlak tertuduh daripada Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat yang dikemukakan kepada mahkamah menyatakan remaja terbabit gemar menonton filem lucah bersama rakannya di rumah ketika ketiadaan ibunya.

Remaja itu didakwa mengikut Seksyen 376B Kanun Keseksaan yang membawa hukuman penjara maksimum 20 tahun dan sebatan, jika sabit kesalahan.

Bagi tuduhan pertama, dia dituduh merogol adiknya di sebuah rumah di Jalan Abdul Rahman, Parit Jawa, dekat sini, pada Mei 2005.

Bagi tuduhan kedua, dia dituduh melakukan perbuatan sama terhadap mangsa di tempat yang sama pada 14 Februari lalu.

Pada 7 Mac lalu, mahkamah sama menjatuhkan hukuman yang sama terhadap abang tertuduh berusia 23 tahun selepas mengaku merogol adiknya pada November 2004 dan 24 Januari lalu.

One of my goals for this year is to change car, but I have not decided what car yet. I always like BMW. I used to set goal that I would drive BMW before I reach age 30. Now it's almost there. But the thing is my desire towards BMW car now is not as strong as before. It is very high maintenance compare with other cars in the same category. But well if you can afford to buy the car, I don't think so maintenance would be a problem. As for me, it's how you feel when you drive the car. When I visualize myself or seeing young executives driving the car, I feel it's kind of stereotyping of showing your level of achievement in your career or maybe life. I also believe that, nowadays BMW is having tough competition with other brands like HONDA, MERCEDES, HYUNDAI and many more. What I am trying to say is that people are also impressed if you drive these cars but of course the higher end category. I really want to change my car or maybe trying all my best to change car this year because:-

1. IMAGE, for some people maybe its not as important. Even for myself, I would love to use my national car beside its economical and low maintenance. In my career, GOOD and SUCCESSFUL image is important for future business.
2. DRIVING FORCE, if you ask me do I have so much money I would say hell no. sometimes you need driving force to make you work harder. If the driving force not big enough or not expensive enough you would just take it slow and steady.

So now I have to make it clear to myself which car should I change to? My 1^st choice is HONDA ACCORD. Whenever I see that car, my heart beat damn fast. I feel jealous when I saw young exec. driving that car. I felt that it is supposed to be mine. Its really irresistible for me. But one thing, I have the feeling if I drive that car I feel very old. Its too serious and no fun. Another obstacle it is bloody damn expensive. Even I have the money, would I willing to spend for car for the sake of my reason above??

2^nd choice would be HONDA CITY new facelift. Reasonable price. Looks very executive and successful without overly potrayed. Its more less project myself. Obstacle is too many people driving it. Again is stereotyping not being different.

3^rd choice PEUGEOT 206, this car is really fun, sleek, different and confidence. I would really love it but the obstacles are the price and limited space. But its really cool driving it.

What you guys think?? Which one should I choose?

This is my 1^st time, I heard that sexual term. The latest sexual term I learn is metrosexual, suddenly now got VITALSEXUAL. I found it after reading today newspaper. Anyway the meaning of the term is important and very vital. The meaning is

VITALSEXUAL = men/women who find that spontaneous sex act and satisfaction of their partner in sex is important in their sex life.

So this term is more less can be used to replace term that we normally used like maybe PATUNG CENDANA (PC). The idea is to just to make someone jealous how educated we are by using this term. Heheheh

Cth ayat:-

Men1: you ni bosan tul la, asyik I jer yg puaskan you, you duduk diam keras jer, you are not vitalsexual men langsung, bosan I

Men2: (confuse) aper tu vitalsexual???

Ader cth ayat lain??? Sure prof imah, sheri, fiebie leh buat cth ayat lagi best hahahah

Lelaki vitalsexual utamakan kepuasan pasangan

Oleh Zef Othman

KUALA LUMPUR: Hampir 40 peratus lelaki di negara ini yang berusia 40 tahun ke atas dikenal pasti tergolong dalam kumpulan 'vitalsexual' yang menganggap kelakuan seks spontan dan kepuasan pasangan penting dalam kehidupan seks mereka.

Kaji selidik syarikat farmaseutikal Jerman, Bayer HealthCare Pharmaceuticals, mendapati 60 peratus daripada 1,000 responden yang diselidik di Malaysia sanggup mencari penyelesaian secara aktif untuk memperbaiki hubungan seks bersama pasangan mereka.

Kajian itu turut mendedahkan, 31 peratus daripada responden mahu hubungan seks bertahan lebih lama dengan memberi lebih kepuasan kepada pasangan masing-masing berbanding 21 peratus bagi lelaki bukan 'vitalsexual'.

Lelaki vitalsexual didefinisikan lelaki berumur lebih 40 tahun dan mementingkan hubungan seks, kepuasan seks pasangannya dan reaksi spontan dalam hubungannya, manakala lelaki bukan vitalsexual, kurang berminat dalam hubungan seks.

Hasil kajian turut menunjukkan peratusan lelaki yang dikategori sebagai vitalsexual bersedia menerima rawatan bagi masalah mati pucuk (ED) lebih tinggi iaitu sebanyak 60 peratus berbanding 53 peratus bagi golongan bukan vitalsexual.

Perundingan Urologi Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM), Dr Zulkifli Md Zainuddin, berkata kira-kira 15 peratus daripada 152 juta lelaki menghadapi masalah ED dengan kurangnya 20 peratus sanggup menerima rawatan.

"Kebanyakan lelaki memiliki ego untuk mendapatkan rawatan. Jika dilihat, jumlah itu sebenarnya adalah kecil berbanding jangkaan lelaki menghidap ED akan meningkat sehingga 322 juta orang pada 2025 di mana separuh daripadanya dialami oleh lelaki berumur 40 tahun ke atas.

"Berbeza bagi lelaki vitalsexsual, mereka bersedia berjumpa pakar sakit tuan untuk membincangkan masalah berkenaan secara terbuka kerana matlamat hubungan seks mereka ialah untuk memberi kepuasan kepada pasangan dan ketidakbolehan itu dianggap sebagai masalah besar," katanya.

Beliau berkata demikian ketika ditemui selepas membentangkan laporan kaji selidik seks itu di sini, semalam. Hadir sama Ketua Bayer Healthcare Pharmaceuticals, Lim Siew Kheng dan Ketua Unit Penyelidikan Kesihatan Universiti Malaya (UM), Dr Low Wah Yun.

Menurut Bayer Healthcare, daripada kajian yang dilakukan di 14 negara, Malaysia berada di kedudukan ke-10 (39 peratus) diikuti Singapura (37 peratus) manakala Brazil di tangga teratas dengan jumlah golongan lelaki vitalsexual teramai iaitu 63 peratus.

Kaji selidik itu yang pertama seumpamanya di negara ini turut mendedahkan, lelaki vitalsexual lebih bersikap bertolak ansur dalam hubungan kelamin tanpa mengenepikan perasaan cinta yang dianggap perlu bagi memastikan hubungan seks berjalan lancar.

"Lebih 27 peratus lelaki vitalsexual ingin menikmati hubungan seks lebih kerap dan bersikap lebih bertimbang rasa mengenai perasaan pasangan terutama membabitkan kepuasan seks pasangan berbanding hanya menumpukan kepuasan sendiri," katanya.

After much promo by many of the blogs that I read, I decided to watch the drama which appears on TV2 at 2 pm yesterday. The truth is I have not watched the earlier drama before. But basically is about life of a soft guy so called ‘lelaki lembut’. This drama is about his life in university. I am not really drama melayu follower, so I don’t know whenever good or bad dramas appear on TV. But I do enjoy good movies. Good movies for me are not only ‘oscar type’ of movies but anything that able to deliver the message to the viewer effectively. I am not a movie critic but here I would like to share some point that I feel why SUTUN 2 is a very good drama to watch.

The casts:

All the actors did a very good job in bringing the character of the movie. Personally, I like FITRI because I think his character is the most challenging. He played as kelantanese religious macho looks guy but have a soft voice like sissy. He delivers the character so well and sounds very convincing. In this movie I feel that all the characters contributed very much in this movie and important. I just thought that ADIK best friend, I can’t remember her name, should develop her role further. Anyway, Congrats to all off them, jobs well done guys.

The flow:

One of the reasons that I have not watched malay drama coz sometimes its so damn slow. Its different with some oscar movies that mostly slow movie but they got substance in it. Its very hard to explain it here but SUTUN 2 has a very good flow. So you would not feel bored watching the movie.

The delivery:

The delivery of the dialogue or message in this movie quite well delivered. It is not draggy (meleret-leret) in conveying the message. You would find it is funny when it supposes to be funny, serious when it supposes to be serious and so on. It touches the heart of the viewer in certain aspect as well as laughter in some of the scene.

The script:

I find the script quite well written. Not overly done. It’s just nice and would not offend anybody. I am sure it’s not easy to write script for this subject because it might stir some issues but at the same time you want it to be well received by all.

The symbolic:

Many symbolic gesture, dialogue as well as object in this SUTUN 2. here I guess not all viewers would understand but indirectly matured or open minded audience would get it. Some of it is PINK colour, the use of BANANA as well as certain dialogue. This triggered my memory about my favorite malay drama script writer and director MOHD NOOR KADIR. He is totally different in bringing subject in his drama. I love his dialogue coz full of symbolic that makes you think to understand it.

The subject:

The main subject of the movie is about soft guy life. So of course there are few taboo subject that we not able to discuss openly, here in Malaysia. Homosexuality is totally no-no here. That’s why I put the subject in this movie as my last point is because I don’t want it to be the main reason I enjoy the movie. Obviously, it gives me pull-factor to watch the movie but that does not have to be the main reason I like the movie. This movie offer more than that. It’s groundbreaking for Malaysian. It shows the reality of soft guy life which also reflects the gay life generally in Malaysia. This movie play the subject gracefully without offended anybody as well as able to reach the audiences. Well done job MR. Director.

Oklah this is my 1^st entry reviewing movie. Hope you enjoy it

banyak banyak body parts, the most seducing for me is ABS (cik nek tak masuk ok?? heheh). 2nd is CHEST. So here are some ABS pictures i that choose from some of famous blog and very internationally recognised (kena puji skit sebab curik pic dr. blog diorang. ampunnnnn).

RANK the most seducing ABS from 1 to 4. 1 is the best and 4 is ok ler. heheheheh

ABS 1

ABS 2

ABS 3

ABS 4

guess which one is my ABS heheeheh

Here I am Sunday evening at sawanna again…heheheh…

What happen to me?

Addiction? Maybe

Horny? Not really

Not afraid of police raid? Of course, who’s not?

But, WHY? Why you at sawanna again?

To be frank, I like the adventure in saawanna. It’s like you are in your fantasy world.  Half naked men surround you. Some are your type some are just not. You can pick and choose but that does not mean you might get it. It takes lot of skills especially body language here I really mean BODY. If you think you have nice body and cute looks well you might be the queen of the bees. But if you are not, it takes more effort from you. Whatever it is just enjoy the music, the heat, the steam, the darkness and of course the men.

So what happen this time?

Since I am not so horny heheh, so I really take it easy. Of course lot of changing eye contact which is the very basic skills of flirting. But it does not attract me so much, NO ADVENTURE (kekwat sungguh).

So nothing happen?

Hemm then come a very tall, not-so-bald (like mawi), broad chest, cute face Chinese guy standing against the wall while I was having my coffee. He give me a glance but not so obvious like he wants me. The truth I have met this guy here before and he always come with friends. He seems that he enjoys his friend companion rather than really hunting. So he really gave me challenge. I love that.

What happen next?

Well at first both of us play hard to get, maybe wrong timing or maybe waiting for one of us to initiate. When I go inside the darkroom, he would be on his way out and vice versa. When I smoke outside the steam room he would smoke also but sit very far from me. Both of us try to look not interested with each other I guess until……

I walk to the dark room and I stop at somewhere near the private room with glory hole. The dim light allows you to see the people pass by. Then he came, he saw me and he stand somewhere nearby around the corner. I walk pass him and let my shoulder rub or touch his broad chest. This small gesture would let me know if he interested with me. I then stand somewhere nearby. True enough he came to me and start caressing me. Since so many guys pass by us, he asked me to go to the private room with bed in it. Shall I story all the details inside the private room. Naaaaahhh

Is he good?

Of course, but in the private room only I can feel that he really want me so much. Despite the cool gesture and play hard to get attitude, he surprise me with all the compromising position that I thought a guy like him will never or allow me to do. Never, ever, judge a book from its cover heheeh. I think both of us really enjoy it.

Any bad incident happens?

As usual, some guys are just don’t get it till you tell them straight to their face that their not your type. But this time is worse, this ‘Frankenstein’ size guy try to peep me while I was in shower. So I get out from the shower but he try to grab me. He able to hold my wrist, I ask him to let me go. Luckily he released me. I almost punch him on his face. Even after that he still tries to flirt with me. I show him my ‘penumbuk’ gesture than only he go away.

THE END

HOW BAD IS YOUR TEMPER ACCORDING TO YOUR HOROSCOPE?

PISCES FEBRUARY 19 – MARCH 20
The only thing that can be said about you dreamers is that you appear even more attractive when angry. You are very sensitive to others' feelings, so you rarely hurt them. But when others tend to hurt you, then things take a nasty turn. You will yell and use harsh words and feel inclined to shake everything and everyone up. Your creative imagination is at its best when angry, and you tend to get pretty dramatic. When upset, you refuse to listen to reason and wish to be left alone. But once you calm down, you repent your tantrums and seek forgiveness. SO nobody can be upset with you for too long.

the next day after the climbing trip, we decided to go to islands. with my cramp muscle and cant-bend leg, we still have the strenght to go there. anywhere the boat driver ( boat driver??) said that its good to swim at the sea after climbing, coz it will helps recover the aching muscle. i dont know whether its true or not but i really enjoy swimming and the scenery at the island also beautiful. the journey to the island is about 10 to 20 minutes only. its very near from KK. many islands there but we choose to go to Manukan and Sapi island. even pulau tiga the one that appear in the first survival reality show is also somewhere nearby. some local said that the coral was more beautiful those days but been destroyed during GREGG hurricane that heat sabah few yeaars back. All these islands surrounding called MARINE PARK TUNKU ABDUL RAHMAN. i not sure it consist of how many islands. anyway enjoy some of the pictures that i have taken....

manukan island

sapi island

Manukan jetty from far

SApi island jetty from side view

MASSAGE

Price range : RM40- RM50 (one hour)

Advantages: here I can really pamper myself from the touch and the massage itself; of course at the end of the massage, you may get what you want. But it all depends on the masseurs, if they like you very much, they willing to do what you want. Here I don’t have much problem hehheh kekwat tul. Besides good massage and sex (optional), the good thing is you can choose the masseurs. They have range from the big muscular guys to anak ikan. So pick your choice. That’s what I like most. You can pick the guys. I always ask the friendly and know basic massage guy. Private room also give you some privacy.

Disadvantages: PRICE! PRICE! PRICE! RM50 you can do a lot of things here in Malaysia. The massage is only 1 hour. Here time is money. You want more time; you got to pay more money. So you must make use of the short time beneficially hehehe.

SAUNA

Price range: RM15-RM25

Advantages: cheap, the crowd is mainly matured executives. I like to go sauna because you can have or maybe try with many guys. Its more adventure before you had the guys. Eye contact is very important here. If you are a shy type guy, and hoping people to make the 1^st move. You might lose all the opportunity here heheh. The dark room, steamy and hot sauna, shower and sweat spice up the place and your sex indulgence. Here you not only judge a person from his look but even his body. Heheh. Arghhhh guy wrap in towel I cannot stand it anymore. A exclusive SPA treatment look like also highlight the place. You can relax and take your own sweat time here.

Disadvantages: you might bump to someone you know and don’t expect them to be here. heheheh. Sometimes you are stalk by the not your type guys. That’s really irritating. What else?? I can’t think of any for now. I can only think of nice look and toned muscle body wrap in towel now hahhaahah

So guys choose your option, as for now with police raid and over exposure of the scene in media. You got to be careful. Use protection ok heheheheh